Ayush was an Elementary School Kid. He drew a Family Picture. Karan, his father, came back from work, tired & exhausted. Ayush came to him with his drawing. Karan saw it and said, "Do you call this a Drawing? Not even a single line, single curve is drawn correctly." Ayush took it back. He got 95% in his final exams. He was Class Topper. Karan said, "What about lost 5%? You are a Loser." He won Inter School Cricket Competition. He took 5 wickets and scored 90 runs. He was awarded the Best Bowler & Best Batsman. Karan's reaction, "Loser! Why only 5 wickets? What about Century?"
Karan didn't ever encourage Ayush for anything. For him, Ayush was always a Loser. On the other hand, Karan's brother, Arjun, was just reverse. He always praised Ayush for all his efforts & achievements. For him, Ayush was always a Winner. Not because he always won. Because he always kept trying to be better.
Along with the passing time, Ayush stopped trying to make Karan happy with anything. The only person he cared about was Arjun, his Uncle. He became distant from Karan & closer to Arjun. Instead of proving himself to Karan, he focused only on improving himself. Thanks to Arjun's motivation. After a few years, Ayush became a Happy Adult, with a Healthy & Strong Bond with Arjun. Karan was Left All Alone.
Life is also like that. If you find someone always criticizing you, never ever praising, even encouraging you, don't let that person disappoint you. Encourage Yourself, Motivate Yourself, Praise Yourself. Keep telling yourself, "You'll Do It!" Make Yourself Better Than Yourself. There's No Point in Proving Yourself to such Ungrateful People. Just Focus on Improving Yourself. Don't Beg to them. Make them Regret.
Stop Proving ๐๐ป, Start Improving ๐๐ป
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