Saturday, September 28, 2024

Uniqueness Deserves Dignity, Not Comparison

Hema, Rekha, Jaya and Sushma are Cousin Sisters. They all are Well Educated Working Married Women. They all are supposed to maintain a Work Life Balance. Sushma is having a 24 X 7 House Helper for all Household Chores and Baby Sitting. Jaya's House Helper comes in Morning and Evening only. She chose Child Day Care Center for her Baby. Rekha manages her Household Chores on her own. Her Family Takes Care of her Baby, whoever is at Home. Hema Resigned from her Job.

They all met at a Family Gathering. All 4 Sisters were happy to see each other, having a Good Time. But some people were Not So Happy to see all this. These Not So Happy People started comparing them. Some were praising Hema for Sacrificing her Career for her Family. Some were appreciating Rekha for Managing her Career, her House & her Child, altogether, on her Own. Some were supporting Jaya for Protecting her Career by Using her Money to Take Care of her House & Baby. Some were favoring Sushma for Putting her Career as her First Priority Without Affecting her Family & Baby.

This was a surprise to all 4 sisters. They didn't ever compare themselves to each other. They felt shocked. So, they started comparing these Not So Happy People. They compared their Make Up, Dresses, Hair Styles, Accessories, Footwear, Perfumes, and many more. Those Not So Happy People started shouting.

All 4 Sisters Burst into Laugh. They said, "Do you understand now, how does it feel to be compared? You have your own taste & choice in dresses, hair & make up styles, accessories, footwear & perfumes. Similarly, We also have Our Own Styles in Carrying Our Responsibilities. Accept It or Neglect It. But Don't Compare It. Our Different Personalities Make Us Dignified, Not Comparable. We are Different. We are Unique. We have Our Own Choices, Our Own Styles. And That's Perfectly OK."

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